The very fact that people are still complaining about One More Day and Ultimatum is because you haven't screwed up since then. Before those stories were written, people were complaining about killing Jean Grey during Planet X then having Grant Morrison justify it in Here Comes Tomorrow by shoving the Scott/Emma romance down our throats. The day before X-Men 150, people were still whining about The Clone Saga and The Crossing. Point being, you've done everything right for five years. Good Job.